Often the forgotten member of the wedding party, here is a Man's Guide
Enjoy!
Your average red-blooded American male completely glazes over while
listening to his fiance and her female friends plan his wedding.
As he listens to them talk about logo designs on napkin holders,
size of bags for wedding favors, and color coordinating bridal
bouquets, it’s just natural for many men not to get too
emotionally charged over those things.
After listening to hour after hour of wedding planning, he’s
actually ready to booby-trap the wedding planner’s car, but
let’s keep that to ourselves.
Even when he does share his sentiments about the color and style of
tuxedoes that he thinks the men should wear, he soon discovers that
it’s best for him to just keep quiet.
So, many men come across as “uncaring” when it comes to
participating in the wedding planning. That can be just as dangerous as
offering too many suggestions that are to be quickly overruled anyway.
So, how do you win? How do you safely suggest things that will make the wedding truly memorable.
One of the easiest and most impactful ways to do it is to select the
wedding song. The song that is going to be “your song, “one
that is going to bring back memories of that special day every time
that it plays on the radio, is actually a decision that you CAN make.
However, there is a trick to it.
The trick is to find just that perfect song and then lead your
fiance to notice it. Get a copy of a song like “I Do,”
currently the most popular wedding song in America and begin playing it
around her.
Since fitting all of the pieces of that perfect wedding together are
foremost on her mind, she will begin to notice the song. As you
romantically sing along, she’ll notice even more.
Then, you subtly suggest that “I Do” become “your
special song.” Since she’s already noticed the song, and
since every time that you sing it to her, she wells up anyway,
she’ll love the idea.
If she’s really paying attention, she’ll give you credit
for actually participating in the wedding planning. She may even brag
to her mother and friends that you selected the wedding song.
Do you see how simple planning a wedding is? All you need to do is
visit: http://www.yourweddingdaymusic.com/ and grab a copy of the
song… or if you have her near a computer, just let his listen to
a snippet from right on the website.
If you really want to get into it, you can also suggest the perfect
father-daughter dance song… “Little Girl” from:
http://www.thelittlegirlsong.com Let her listen to that song, or while
visiting the future in-laws, let the father hear it. When she’s
sees the tears in his eyes, she’ll know “that’s the
song.” You’ll have helped her with another wedding decision.
Wedding planning isn’t so hard after all is it? Maybe you
should plan the meals too. Nah, let’s quit while we’re
ahead.
e. walter smith’s incredible voice currently makes him
america’s foremost wedding singer. his songs “i do”
and “little girl” are taking the country by storm. find out
more about smith, and listen to samples of his songs online at: http://www.yourweddingdaymusic.com/
